Dear Jim
Sometimes a very special comment comes alone. One that just deserves its own post.
It seems that your anger is being directed toward everyone but the guilty party: you. You are obviously an unfit mother and your child is better off with someone else. My advice is to seek counseling for your anger and stop blaming everyone but yourself.
Awwww Jim. Thank you oh so much for coming over here to tell me what I am and am not. You saved me all the trouble of thinking. (something it seems you do little of too) Now that you have made me aware I am an unfit mother I can tell the school to pull my oldest son out of advanced placement math. Too much homework for us unfit mothers to help with. I can stop baking the 4 dozen muffins I promised for youngest sons lock in. No more need for me to run the kids to concerts, play dates, soccer, clubs and school events. Oh Shit! I better call all the parents that just entrusted their kids with me yesterday at the pool party and tell them to be more careful! Oh the horror of them letting me take care of their children. I guess I can stop cooking and cleaning every second that I have free. No more helping with school projects and being the room parent. Damn my life just got a whole lot less busy.
As to my daughter being better off with someone else I will have to disagree. I will not bash the people taking care of her on here. I will just make one simple point. Even if I was the monster you want to believe I am. No need to believe I am….. My daughter lost her entire family. Grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters all gone from her life. She has lost her heritage.( something we strongly celebrate as a family) She has lost so many people that would have brought a special joy to her life.
Now on to anger. Yep I’m angry. Anger is a natural response to being victimized. Would you rather I be happy that my child was stolen from me? In my opinion that would make me a true monster. Walk a mile in my shoes and see if you are angry. I’m willing to bet you are. If you really think anyone can go through this and not be angry you are stupider than I thought. Yet I do not walk around all day raging with steam coming out of my ears. This is my blog about my feeling and what happened to ME. WTF did you expect to find here. You should have gone back and read the whole blog. I have already cover the whole angry and bitter BS.
Fear not dear Jim. I know exactly who to blame. I am done taking responsibility for the actions of others. Hmmm maybe I should let the judge know it was all my fault after all. I’m sure he will hang his head in shame for blaming that poor innocent agency. And when he asks me how I know its me to blame we won’t need all that pesky evidence we used the first time. I can just let him know its true cause Jim told me. I’m sure he’ll love that
My advice to you my friend, is learn how to read.
Aborted Mother 
JadedTears said,
June 11, 2008 at 4:54 am
It’s ppl like this that really make me mad. If you dont know anything about someone then keep ur comments to urself! it’s that simple.
heatherrainbow said,
June 11, 2008 at 10:26 am
The People as a whole must be getting close to the truth, or else there wouldn’t be such anger and resistance to it.
Cassi said,
June 13, 2008 at 1:58 am
Great response to a disgustingly stupid comment. Way to go!
Myst said,
September 8, 2008 at 10:36 am
Gotta love these idiots who wanna hide their head in the sand. Who wanna believe adoption is about mothers who are unfit and have to lose their children. Probably an adopter himself and therefore needs to assauge his guilt by putting another mother down. To Jim and the likes of you, get over yourselves and your need to make yourself feel better by being nasty to people you know nothing about.